With the world celebrating Mother’s Day, it occurred to me that one of the prime questions a bochur/guy should be asking himself is, “what type of wife do I want to be the mother of my children?”
Yet more often than not, I hear or sense that the only interest the guys have is if she has the looks to be a “trophy wife”. Someone he can gloat about when parading down Central Avenue. Someone he can pose with in photos that he feels needs to be posted on Facebook.
Being a mother wife is not mutually exclusive to being an attractive wife. And believe it or not, many guys (I hope all think so) luck out with both when they get engaged and married.