Monthly Archives: February 2017

It’s All A Test


Shimona Tzukernik, noted speaker, educator and The Kabbalah Coach, shared with me words of life wisdom that Rabbi Immanuel Schochet z”l imparted to her.

This is the mashal/analogy and lesson he gave her. (It is either from the Baal Shem Tov or the Maggid of Mezritch.)

A king invited all the members of his kingdom to a great party. Everyone eagerly awaited it months in advance. During that time, the king built a deep moat (a deep, wide ditch surrounding a castle, fort, or town, typically filled with water and intended as a defense against attack) around his palace and planted thorn bushes on the outskirts of the royal city. Closer to the date of the gathering, he had wild animals delivered to the forest that surrounded the palace. read more

Routine Shake-Up!!!

change-sameHow many of you feel like you are going around in circles? Tired of looking for fresh names. Tired of doing research. Tired of being rejected or doing the rejection. Tired of having your whole focus in life concentrated on finding your bashert at the expense of being productive at your day job.

It may be time to keep your day job and at the same time, freshen up how you date and find dates.

Avoid burn out and expand your network at the same time.

You simply need to evaluate your day-to-day routine so that you can identify the opportunities you currently have to meet someone and the opportunities you’re missing out on. If the suggestions are far and few in between, time to assess what are doing on a daily basis to increase the pool of people you are considering. read more